Tears for Trauma: Birth Trauma, Crying, and Child Abuse
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Tears for Trauma:
Birth Trauma, Crying, and Child Abuse

Aletha Solter, Ph.D.


ABSTRACT:  Infant crying has been linked to child abuse. In a survey of battered infants, eighty percent of the parents reported that excessive crying by their child triggered the abuse. It is therefore vitally important to help parents understand and cope with their babies’ crying. This paper presents evidence supporting a stress-release theory of infant crying, with particular emphasis on birth trauma as a source of stress.

Birth-traumatized infants need to cry extensively in order to release the physiological tensions resulting from the trauma. Crying removes excess stress-related chemicals from the body and serves the purpose of restoring the body’s chemical balance after a stressful event has occurred. Crying is a beneficial physiological process that allows people to cope with stress and can be considered an inborn healing mechanism. This crying puts them at high risk for child abuse, which is one possible explanation for the correlation between birth trauma and later violent behavior.

Appropriate and inappropriate responses to infant crying are discussed. Babies benefit immensely from being held during crying episodes by an attentive and empathic person who can calmly acknowledge and accept their feelings.

Were this new information about the role of crying in the resolution of trauma and the restoration of homeostasis to be widely applied, it is suggested we would see a dramatic reduction in the number of instances of child abuse and the lifelong impact of traumatic birth would be minimized because babies would be healing themselves in a supportive environment. When parents receive enough information and support, loving holding will replace the urge to hit or even distract their crying babies. This will have a dramatic positive impact on babies’ well-being, as well as on the parent-child relationship.1
 

The Trouble With Crying

A baby’s crying can invoke powerful feelings in caretakers. When asked to describe their feelings when they were unable to quiet their crying babies, new mothers confessed a range of emotions, including exasperation, lack of confidence, fear, anxiety, confusion, anger, and resentment. Some even reported feeling extremely hostile towards their infants (Jones, 1983).

Not surprisingly, infant crying has been linked to child abuse (Frodi, 1985; Murray, 1979). In a survey of battered infants, eighty percent of the parents reported that excessive crying by their baby triggered the abuse (Weston, 1968). It is therefore vitally important to help parents understand and cope with their babies’ crying.

The baffling thing about crying is that babies often cry for reasons that appear unrelated to any immediate need. In fact, it has been observed that about one-third of the instances of crying in newborn infants are of undetermined cause (Aldrich et al., 1945) and that young babies cry on the average of one-and-a-half to two hours per day (Brazelton, 1962). Crying duration typically peaks when the infant is six to eight weeks of age and then gradually declines.

Many conflicting opinions about crying are found in parenting manuals. Most of the advice is based on the assumption that all crying in infants is undesirable and asserts that the appropriate caretaking response is to quiet or "soothe" the baby. However, I have seriously questioned this assumption in my book, titled The Aware Baby (Solter, 1984).

In this article, I will review the traditional explanations for crying and then present evidence for a stress-release theory of crying.
 

Traditional Explanations for Crying

There are numerous traditional explanations for extensive crying in infants. Three of the most common ones are the gastrointestinal theory, the allergenic theory, and the psychosocial theory.

Perhaps the most common of these explanations is the gastrointestinal theory, which states that infants cry because they have abdominal pain (Illingworth, 1954). The term colic originally referred to abdominal pain but has become essentially synonymous with crying behavior. Thus, parents are led to believe that whenever babies cry for no apparent reason they must be suffering from abdominal pain, resulting perhaps from an immature digestive system.

The colic theory, however, does not fit with Dr. Spock’s observation that, "The strange thing is that the colicky or crying baby usually prospers from the physical point of view. In spite of hours of crying, he continues to gain weight . . . better than average" (Spock, 1976). Furthermore, no gastrointestinal malfunction has been found in babies who cry extensively (Jorup, 1982; Wessel, 1965).

To further counter the colic theory, there is evidence that many older babies continue to have crying episodes, even though their digestive systems would presumably be fully mature by then. In an extensive survey of crying babies, only twenty-five percent had stopped by three months of age, and twenty-five percent were still crying at nine months of age (Kirkland, 1985). The explanation of crying being purely the result of abdominal pain due to an immature digestive system is therefore inadequate.

Related to the gastrointestinal theory is the allergenic theory. When infants are bottle fed, an immediate suspect is an allergy to cow’s milk protein. It is known that some babies are allergic to cow’s milk, and this possibility should be considered in all cases of extensive crying. However, when thirty-two normal, four-week-old infants with colic were switched from cow’s milk to soy milk, there was no reduction in either the duration or frequency of crying, or in intestinal gas production (Barr et al., 1987).

Some mothers report that their breast-fed babies cry less when certain other offending foods are eliminated from the mothers’ diets. However, unless the foods are first eliminated and then reintroduced in the mother’s diet to see if the crying increases, one can never be certain that the mother’s consumption of the food actually caused the crying. Nevertheless, there does seem to be evidence that food allergies and sensitivities can be a possible factor in the etiology of infant crying, although this fails to account for the majority of cases.

The most common psychosocial theory of crying implies that babies cry because their mothers are lacking in love or confidence, or are anxious or hostile. However, the studies on this are inconclusive. Although correlations have been found between mothers’ lack of confidence and anxiety levels and the amount of crying by their infants (Lakin, 1957; Stewart, 1954), it is quite likely that a mother’s lack of confidence could be the result of having a crying baby rather than the cause.

Thus, the various traditional explanations for crying during infancy are inadequate, and the majority of cases of extensive crying remain unexplained.
 

Crying as Tension-Release Mechanism

So why do babies cry? I have found it useful to distinguish two reasons for crying. A primary function of crying is to communicate needs and discomforts that require a caretaking intervention—such as feeding, holding, stimulation, or a change in position. When an infant expresses a need by crying, it is the caretaker’s responsibility to discern the infant’s need and to satisfy it as accurately and as promptly as possible.

In my book, The Aware Baby, I have proposed that a secondary function of crying is that of a stress-release mechanism (Solter, 1984). Crying allows babies to release the pain and tension resulting from physical or emotional stress and trauma. As an illustration, babies typically cry when a vaccination is administered but also for several minutes afterwards. In fact, the crying may last much longer than the actual physical pain, because there is emotional pain as well, consisting of fear, confusion, indignation, anger, and perhaps even a sense of betrayal. The physiological process of crying allows all of these feelings, in addition to the physical pain itself, to be discharged.
 

Research on the Benefits of Crying

There is considerable scientific research on the physiological and psychological effects of crying. This evidence supports the theory that crying is beneficial and serves as a natural stress-release mechanism. I will briefly summarize some of this research.

Dr. William Frey, a biochemist who studied human tears, compared tears shed for emotional reasons, which he called "emotionally induced tears," with those shed because of an irritant such as a cut onion, called "irritant-induced tears" (Frey and Langseth, 1985).

The biochemical analyses of the two kinds of tears revealed statistically significant differences, specifically higher protein concentrations in the emotionally induced tears. Further analyses of these tears revealed the presence of certain hormones and neurotransmitters that are found to be present in the body during stress. These substances serve to prepare the various body organs to cope adaptively with stress. However, since they are no longer needed after the stressful event is terminated, their continued presence would maintain the body in a state of needless tension and arousal.

Dr. Frey concluded from his research that the purpose of crying in response to stress is to remove waste products from the body through tears, just as waste products are excreted by urinating and defecating. Crying, therefore, serves the purpose of restoring the body’s chemical balance after a stressful event has occurred. Sweating is another mechanism by which the body rids itself of chemical substances.

Other researchers have measured physiological changes during crying in adults and have found that crying lowers the blood pressure, pulse rate, and body temperature, and results in more synchronized brain-wave patterns (Karle, Corriere, and Hart, 1973; Woldenberg et al., 1976). As these are generally considered to be measures of tension, the conclusion from these studies is that crying serves to reduce tension.

If crying removes excess chemicals from the body and also reduces tension, one would expect it to be related to physical and psychological health. Several studies have confirmed this. For example, children suffering from various forms of trauma benefit from therapy that allows the natural stress-release mechanism of crying (Emerson, 1989; Jewett, 1982; Levine, 1994). Severely disturbed children also benefit from crying. Several therapists have noted profound and rapid improvements in autistic children after they were allowed and encouraged to cry and rage during holding-therapy sessions (Waal, 1955; Welch, 1983; Zaslow and Breger, 1969), and children with extreme behavior problems have also been cured with similar holding therapy (Magid and McKelvey, 1987).

These different areas of research all support the conclusion that crying is a beneficial physiological process that allows people to cope with stress and can be considered an inborn healing mechanism. Although newborn infants typically do not shed tears when they cry until they are several weeks old, they do sweat profusely during crying spells, perhaps excreting excess stress hormones in that manner until the tear glands begin to function.
 

Sources of Stress and Trauma During Infancy

Infancy is far from being a stress-free stage of life. A major source of stress and trauma during infancy is that caused prenatally and during the birth process. The field of prenatal psychology has shown that babies are sensitive, intelligent, receptive, and extremely vulnerable before birth (Chamberlain, 1992; Verny, 1981). Maternal stress levels during pregnancy have been found to correlate with the amount of crying in the infant. In one survey, almost half of the mothers whose babies cried extensively reported having been under considerable ongoing stress during pregnancy. None of the mothers whose babies cried less frequently reported any unusual stress during pregnancy (Kitzinger, 1989).

Birth itself can be an extremely painful, confusing, and frightening experience for infants. The major kinds of birth trauma result from being drugged, removed by forceps, cesarean delivery, experiencing prolonged labor, and oxygen deprivation. After birth, it can be terrifying and confusing for the newborn to experience sudden coldness, brightness, rough handling, harsh sounds, or separation from the mother (Janov, 1983). Medical interventions such as electronic fetal monitoring, heelsticks, eye drops, and circumcisions are also distressing to infants. Unfortunately, birth trauma appears to be fairly common. Dr. William Emerson found that fifty-five percent of a sample of two-hundred children showed signs of moderate to severe birth trauma (Emerson, 1987).

Traumatic births have a potential for causing lifelong problems. It is now known that there is a correlation between perinatal complications and later susceptibility to emotional and behavioral problems, including schizophrenia, violent crime, and suicidal behavior (Batchelor et al., 1991; Mednick, 1971; Roedding, 1991).

It has been found that babies whose mothers have experienced a difficult delivery tend to cry more than babies whose mothers had a more pleasant delivery. In one survey, mothers whose babies cried the most were significantly more likely to have had obstetrical interventions or been made to feel powerless during birth (Kitzinger, 1989). Another study showed that babies who had problems at birth were more likely to wake up crying frequently at night during the first fourteen months (Bernal, 1973).

A possible physiological correlate of pre- and perinatal trauma is that these infants are in a state of tension resulting from an overactive sympathetic nervous system and an excess of stress hormones. This biological "fight or flight" response may have been adaptive in helping the infants survive the birth trauma but may last much longer than needed, resulting in physiological problems. This increased sympathetic effect might account for the sleep disorders commonly observed in birth-traumatized infants. Another consequence might be sluggish digestion resulting from the inhibitory effect of the sympathetic nervous system on the digestive organs. This would provide renewed credibility for the colic theory discussed earlier but with the underlying cause of abdominal discomfort being, in this case, emotional stress.

The extensive crying that occurs in babies following a traumatic birth could therefore be a biological stress-release mechanism which allows excess chemicals to be excreted from the body (through sweat and eventually tears) and which also provides a release of energy, thereby completing the physiological stress/relaxation cycle. If the birth trauma was severe, the baby may have long crying spells every day for several months before the trauma is completely resolved and homeostasis is attained.

Other sources of stress during infancy include unfilled needs, overstimulation, developmental frustrations, physical pain, and frightening experiences that occur during the weeks and months after birth. Babies are extremely vulnerable because of their lack of information and skills and their total dependence on others to meet their needs. The ideal goal would be to fill all needs and prevent all stress in babies’ lives. But some stress is inevitable, no matter how loving the parents are. Thus, every baby would need to cry to some extent, even in the absence of any prenatal or birth trauma.
 

Responding to Crying

How should one respond to a crying infant? First of all, it is important to check for immediate needs as well as for pain and discomfort. Once all possible needs and medical causes have been eliminated, it is safe to assume that the crying is serving a stress-release and healing function. Although the exact cause of the crying may be difficult to determine, parents and caretakers nevertheless have an important role to fulfill as listeners. Babies benefit immensely from being held during crying episodes by an attentive and empathic person who can calmly acknowledge and accept their feelings. The approach recommended is similar to the holding therapy for deeply disturbed children that I mentioned earlier.

In the past, parents were commonly advised not to pick up their babies every time they cried, for fear of "spoiling" them. It was believed that no harm could come from leaving babies in their cribs to "cry it out" alone. Unfortunately, there are still a surprising number of parenting books that continue to give this harmful advice. When babies’ cries are not responded to, the inevitable feelings are those of extreme powerlessness and terror. Babies should therefore never be ignored while crying.

More recently, parents have been advised to respond to every cry, but to attempt to "soothe" or "quiet" the baby, past the point of filling immediate needs. Thus, parents have been misled into thinking that their babies need to be continuously walked, rocked, jiggled, or nursed. A "high-need" infant may simply be one who has more stress than average (resulting perhaps from pre- or perinatal trauma) and who needs to cry extensively in order to discharge tensions and restore physiological and psychological homeostasis.
 

How Crying Becomes Repressed

Most parents desperately and understandably want their babies to be "happy." Thus, those who do not understand the beneficial aspects of crying may feel anxious or incompetent when their baby cries inconsolably. Some parents interpret the crying as rejection and conclude that the baby does not want to be held. Furthermore, few parents were allowed to express their own pain when they were young, so an infant’s cry cannot help but trigger their own repressed grief, anger, or fear.

Because of these feelings, there are numerous methods used to repress crying in infants, which are passed on from generation to generation. If the parents were distracted from their own attempts to cry as infants or if they were ignored or punished for crying, there will understandably be a strong urge to repress their own infant’s crying in similar ways.

Some methods—such as ignoring a crying infant, or hitting, shaking, or yelling—stem from the parents’ feelings of frustration and utter helplessness. Other methods appear to be more humane, such as rocking, jiggling, bouncing, using pacifiers, nursing frequently purely for "comfort" (rather than for hunger), or attempting to distract the infant with talking, singing, toys, and so on. However, most of these techniques serve only to postpone the crying by temporarily distracting the infant, thereby interfering with the natural tension-release mechanism. The use of all of these distracters reflects parental anxiety and discomfort with uninhibited emotional expression.

The practice of drugging crying infants has been carried out for centuries. In the past, in Europe, parents routinely gave alcohol or opium to their infants to get them to stop crying and go to sleep, and wet-nurses commonly smeared their nipples with opiate drugs so the baby would sleep. Popular preparations containing opium were readily obtained from pharmacists under the names of Laudanum and Paregoric. Many infants became addicted, while others died from overdoses (Kitzinger, 1989).

Crying infants are frequently drugged nowadays as well. One survey in England found that twenty-five percent of babies had been given sedatives by the time they were eighteen months old (Kitzinger, 1989). Parents who are themselves addicted to chemical substances would be tempted to use this method to stop their baby’s cries. Unfortunately, these drugs interfere with a vital healing mechanism and often make the babies lethargic and unresponsive. Furthermore, babies given sedatives for crying may be at high risk for drug abuse as teenagers and adults. When children’s very first attempts to release their painful feelings are repressed with powerful drugs, it would not be surprising if they turned to drugs later on in life in order to cope with their feelings.
 

Support For Parents

To summarize, crying serves a dual purpose during infancy. A primary function of crying is to communicate vital and basic needs during the preverbal years. The second function has been largely unrecognized until recently. Research has shown that crying is a beneficial physiological process that plays a central role in the resolution of trauma and the restoration of homeostasis. Once all immediate needs have been met and all medical problems ruled out, crying infants should be held and allowed to cry as much as needed.

Since birth-traumatized infants tend to cry more than those not traumatized and since excessive crying by infants is a potent trigger for child abuse, it can be concluded that birth trauma is an important factor contributing to child abuse. In addition to suffering from the birth trauma itself, these babies often suffer further trauma at the hands of their parents who do not understand their attempts to heal themselves through crying. This fact may help to account for the emotional and behavioral problems, as well as later violent behavior of children who experienced perinatal complications.

Because of the strong reactions commonly felt by parents of crying babies, I personally consider all babies who cry extensively to be at risk for child abuse. I have been working with parents for the past seventeen years, and I have found that parents of crying babies need four different kinds of help and support:

First, they need information and continual reminders that the crying is beneficial and healing for their baby and that their babies’ crying does not imply that they are inadequate or that their baby is rejecting them. Second, they need encouragement to hold and listen to their crying baby. Third, they themselves need to be listened to and allowed to express their own strong emotions that are triggered by their babies’ crying, as well as their feelings of anger, anxiety, and powerlessness resulting from a traumatic pregnancy or delivery. Finally, they need an occasional respite from parenting responsibilities.

When all parents are receiving this kind of support and information about crying, then I strongly suspect that we will see a dramatic reduction in the number of instances of child abuse. Furthermore, the lifelong impact of traumatic birth will be minimized because babies will be healing themselves in a supportive environment.

I would like to conclude with a quote from a psychotherapist by the name of Mark Alter (1981). This is the advice that he wishes he had had as a new father. It was printed as part of an article by him in Mothering magazine.

When Greta begins to cry, you will begin to go crazy inside. You will feel suddenly tight, contracted, unable to breathe . . . and you’ll feel like screaming, "Shut up! I can’t stand it. Stop your crying or I’ll kill you." You will feel ashamed of this craziness, but it is not your fault. It is the craziness of a culture that is terrified of human feeling, especially crying, and has no idea what to do with it except shut it up. It is the craziness of your mother and your father and your sister and the lady who lived downstairs as they stood over your crib, their arms folded across their chests and their faces looking down at you crying. The scream that is in you when Greta cries is the scream that was in them when you cried. No one is to blame for that scream. And when your peace returns to you, open up the space for your daughter to cry in. Go to her and hold her. Be at peace and be with her. With your peace and your love make the space bigger and bigger for her to cry in. Surround her with the quiet expanse of your eyes and face and body and energy. It will feel like permission and safety to her. . . . In that space she will cry, for a moment or for many moments, and in that space she will stop crying. In that expanding space a miracle will happen to both of you.

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Copyright © 1996 by Aletha Solter


1.  This article was originally published in Primal Renaissance: The Journal of Primal Psychology, Vol. 2, No. 1, Spring 1996, pp. 27-35.  Reprinted here, with permission.  It had been presented at the Seventh International Congress of the Association for Pre- and Perinatal Psychology and Health (APPAH) on "Birth and Violence," which was held in San Francisco from September 28th through October 1st, 1995.  It was delivered on 29 September 1995.  Some of this information was previously published in the Pre- and Perinatal Psychology Journal, 10(1), 21-43, under the title "Why Do Babies Cry?"  [return to text]


ALETHA SOLTER, Ph.D., is a developmental psychologist and the mother of two children. Her three books, The Aware Baby, Helping Young Children Flourish, and Tears and Tantrums have been translated into several languages. She studied with the Swiss psychologist, Jean Piaget, at the University of Geneva, Switzerland, where she obtained a Master’s degree in human biology. She holds a Ph.D. in psychology from the University of California. Aletha has been working with parents since 1978 and has given talks and led workshops in eight countries. She lives near Santa Barbara, California, where she teaches classes based on her work. She also does private consultations with parents and is the founder of The Aware Parenting Institute. Her goal is to help create a nonviolent world in which all children are allowed to attain their full potential. She feels that parents deserve adequate recognition and support for the challenging job of raising children. Her work offers parents vital information, as well as tools for coping effectively with their own strong emotions and those of their children. Address all correspondence to her at The Aware Parenting Institute, P.O. Box 206, Goleta, CA  93116 (e-mail: solter@awareparenting.com).


Websites of interest regarding Aletha Solter's work, Pre- and Perinatal Psychology, and Healthy Parenting include,

  • Aletha Solter's The Aware Parenting Institute site:  at  www.awareparenting.com  Dr. Solter's site contains information on ordering her books, along with additional articles and information on her work, links to healthy parenting, and much more.
  • The Association for Pre- and Perinatal Psychology and Health site:  at  www.birthpsychology.com
  • The Institute for Psychohistory site also contains information on ways of healthy parenting and on combating child abuse:  at  www.psychohistory.com

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